sup blognerds and followers of the world
i've had an issue resolved.
stupid friends are dumb, got it?
let me just tell you, if you're a girl, and a guy likes you, and you dont like him back, DON'T become his best friend, and expect everything to be okay.. things will deffinately become worse for you. because of his like, he will become you everything. honestly, y'all will be attached, best friends, change-your-facebook-name-and-be-siblings kind of friends.
then, once he gets over you, theres no reason to be your friend anymore, and as much as he cares about you, or wants to care about you, he has to face the fact that he doesnt, but you of course still care about him because you guys are BESTIES. but the problem is, your friendship was based on his crush on you, on your not supposed to be sad, but of course, you're basically depressed cause all you want is to stay friends with this guy who honestly, is done with you, and onto another person.
i shouldnt be surprised, my mom warned me that this would happen, and i was all "nah mum thats not going to happen" but then he misses your birthday, misses your plans and misses talking to you. don't set yourself up for that dissapointment, no matter how tempting the best friendship is at first.
the problem is, your the one whos kidding theirself. you think that you really got to them, but guys are guys, and no matter what, they like you, you're their everything, and when they don't like you, you're kind of a side friend. only if they NEED you, you'll get attention.
You become friends with them because nobody else gives you attention like this, your so happy, and then you're the one who ends up attached, and getting hurt in the end, thinking it'll work.
girls can be friends with guys, i totally back up that theory, but 99% of the time, someone will get hurt, and its usually the both of them.
ciao boes.
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